If you’ve landed on this article, chances are you’ve been having a little trouble in the orgasm department. The truth is, if you don’t know how to make yourself cum, a partner might not know either. We’re a fan of exploring all the beautiful parts of your own body and learning what it takes to see fireworks, especially if you’re hoping for partnered sex to get you there.
That’s where a healthy masturbation habit comes in. If you’re new to masturbation, feeling a little weird about it, or have just found that it does nothing for you, we’re here to help. Learning how to make yourself cum takes practice and patience, so start by giving yourself a break, taking a deep breath, and coming at this with fresh eyes and possibly some fun sex toys. Get excited, you’re about to have an orgasm.